Nokho, abafowabo nodadewabo ngamzali munye abahlobene nhlobo, ngakho-ke ngeke kubhekwe njengento embi noma engcolile. Akumangazi ukuthi insizwa nentombazane endala, abangenabo abalingani abavamile bocansi futhi cishe nsuku zonke bendawonye, kungazelelwe bazizwe bekhangwa ezingeni locansi komunye nomunye. Uma kucatshangelwa ukuthi intombazane iyithandile (umfana ke akukho mbuzo), ngicabanga ukuthi bazoqhubeka nokwenza lolu hlobo lwento ngezikhathi ezithile.
Ubonakala ethanda ukusebenza embonini yezinsizakalo uqobo. )Imilenze yendodakazi yokutholwa iwumlingo, akuyena wonke umuntu okahle ngeqhude ngezandla njengoba enza ngezinyawo zakhe. Yebo, futhi phakathi kwazo zonke izimangaliso - isitho sangasese sowesifazane esigeleza nje ngejusi, ngokusobala isikhathi eside sasifuna ukuyenga usingayise.